Thursday, July 29, 2010

I need some advice, My boyfriend and i have been dating 3 years and he NEVER has ever talked about marriage?

My bf never talks about marriage or having kids in the future from now, what could be wrong , i know alot of other couples talk about it. I am kind of confused about this am i the one he wants to spend the rest of his life with or am i just another girlfriend any advice would be helpful! Thanks:)I need some advice, My boyfriend and i have been dating 3 years and he NEVER has ever talked about marriage?
maybe he's not yet ready!


time will tell! :pI need some advice, My boyfriend and i have been dating 3 years and he NEVER has ever talked about marriage?
well talk to him about it and see what he thinks and if he thinks you're going a little to far it might be that you're another girl or he just hasn't realized how long you've been together if not that maybe he is just not as ready as you are and maybe he needs more time
it depends how old u are, what he has left to achieve in life... If hes not financially stable he might not want to talk about it until he feels like he can support u. Or maybe he just wants to surprise u. Its weird that he never talks about it your right. Maybe you need 2 sit him down and tell him or ask why he n ever talks about it. If hes man enough he wont freak out.. good luck!
After three years you should propose to him and see how fast he either runs or comes to you.
He may think your satisfied just living together and figures way spoil a good thing. To him this is a good thing but if your wanting more from him then you need to bring it up yourself so you can find out if he even wants to get married and have kids. What if he doesn't? Question then will be , what are you going to do, stay or go?
have you talked to him about marriage or kids? if not then maybe its time to bring it up to him.... ask him how he feels about having children, or being married, or if he plans on having a family with someone oneday.... you need to talk to him
Have you asked him this question? that's where i would start.
mabe he is not ready for marrige. next time you go on a date try bringing it up.
no easy way around this, either he don't think of you as the one, or he scared to bring it up.





Now this leaves you with one major thing to do, and that is to talk to him about it. Ask all the tough questions.
ASk him point blank ....





Listen to what he says.
Talk to him about it. He may think you are happy with thnigs as theyt are. When you talk to him, you will see if your just a girlfriend or more.
why don't yOU bring it up if its so important to you? sounds like another relationship with no communication! how the heck do you people know whats going on with each other?
You can't be just another girlfriend if he's been dating you for thaaat long. I think it depends on how old you are...I know some couples talk about that stuff in high school--I sure did--but it never amounted to anything. Later than high school, I dunno. Maybe he just wants to wait til it's really serious before bringing that stuff up. Only one way to find out though. Ask! =)
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