Marriage advice?

so my husband and i are fighting a TON latley and we talked about divorce. well we both decided to try and work things out and told each other what we need. he told me he didnt feel loved anymore and that im always moody (im 9 months pregnant. HELLO!?) also he is in the military away at school right now so our only way to talk is on the phone. well, i have been emailing him and texting him a lot more to tell him i love him and emails about how we will be ok..etc. well, he isnt responding. he is with his brothers this weekend he hasnt seen for a while and says thats why he dosnet text me back-cause he is drinkin with his brothers- that makes me feel like crap! should i keep up with trying to give him so much attention like he wanted or not? he isnt doing anything back. i know guys dont think like girls but its makin me not want to try anything if he doesnt. im SO afraid to say this to him for fear of starting yet another fight. one more and i feel he is done with the marriage.


advice?Marriage advice?
Get a copy of the book called ';The Proper Care %26amp; Feeding of Husbands'; and tell him you're reading it.


Everything will change.Marriage advice?
You should really tell him what you feel and why. He hasn't seen his brother in a while, but right now, I think he should put you first. You're pregnant w/ his baby and you both need to put in the effort to make things work. Even if he is w/ his brother, he needs to show you that he loves you. If he gives excuses for not giving you attention, really let him know that he isn't trying and that you won't either if he continues like this.
I am glad you are going to counseling. No don't tell him in front of his brothers this is private between the two of you. But if you are 9 months along he needs to be closer to home when he is not deployed, and his family should know better. It seems like he has alot of growing up to do or else you will have two children on your hands instead of just one. God Bless and best of luck.
this isn't good. i understand how you would feel hurt, and how he would feel entitled to this 'free' time before he goes home to face a tough marriage and a baby. be patient right now. try your best, i wish he would but you can only control yourself in these situations.
Tell him if he wants this marriage to work, he better straighten his *** out and prove it.
cut ur loses and move on
HUN he is a man...plain and simple..dont sweat it! he will get back at you and read them





ALSO add some spice to it...text him something NAUGHTY I mean REALLY naughty...most men love that and want it from their wives.





and on top of this your emotions are working OVERTIME and they will even after you have your baby for about a month...





I think you both need to learn to fight fair,,pick your battles


respect each other and flirt..date and romance each other
What you're going through is normal for any relationship men handle things so much differently than we do and don't get hurt by the the same things we get hurt by! Right now you are pregnant with his child and you know its all just mood swings but if this was a huge problem before your pregnancy you might have some serious issues to sort out! make sure you aren't nagging him for no reason men absolutely hate that and if you think you are doing that, apologize to him he will feel alot better about making it work!!!!!