Marriage Advice?

My husband is a really great guy. He is sucessful and sweet - and he has a lot of people that really care about him. We just moved back to our hometown after living away for over 5 years. Now, things are really strange. We went from being together for dinner every afternoon (and I really looked forward to spending the evenings with him) to him being gone drinking with his brother/buddies all the time. He usually gets home around midnight, but I am fast asleep by then (I work really early hours). I am sad and worried about this because I really like spending time with my husband and the evenings are all we have. When I try to talk to him about it, he just gets defensive and ends up leaving anyway - but in a mad rage. He says I am overreacting and he just likes to not sit at home when he has nothing to do the next day.


*Oh yea, and a little note - my husband is 25 and his brother (and the kids he is going out with) are all underage - like 19-20. What should I do?Marriage Advice?
Time for hubby to grow up.... seems to me he wants his ';single'; life back even though he is married. Time to sit him down and talk seriously...if he keeps getting mad and defensive, then I would think he has something to hide... Perhaps it's time for you to accompany him on his ';drinking nights';... if he adamantly Say's NO to that... then something is definitely up.Marriage Advice?
Talk to him about it more. Communication is important and I know that you have tried to talk to him but if he really cares about how you feel and loves you than he will compromise.
why dont you suggest going out with your husband and his friends that way you can still feel like an important part of his life. He may be bored of just staying at home. Or you could take him out somewhere fun. If this does not work the n you will need to sit down with your husband and talk seriously as there may be a more deeply rooted issue.
Have you tried making it special, so that he will want to stay at home.
join them... maybe your husband felt that he had missed all the 'fun', hence he is catching up... he is still young and to be so popular, it is inevitable that he will socialise alot..





so, you can try to join them a couple of times every now and then... in a way, at least you know what they are doing, in another way, you are with him..





though you have to work in early hours, you can join them during the eve of your off days... so that the next day, which is not a working day, you can sleep in..

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