Please help marriage advice?

ive been thinking of leaving my wife lately. there a bunch of reasons. she has gotten to be very religous, ( thats really not the problem). and i feel that she is tring to control what i do and watch. she gets pissed if i watch ghost hunters. she says its straight from hell. i cant go out anywhere not even with my brothers or she is going to have a problem with it. although she just talked to her best friend and they want to have a girls night out. me idont have a problem with them going out im not with her to control her. but if i cant go why should she? also im not sexualy satisfied by far. 1 year i kept trak of how many times we hade sex and oral sex. with out her knowing bcuz she was saying i was crazy. last year we had sex 26 times and a BJ twice in the whole year. and the bj where 2 min long each. i do have a family i dont want to leave but im not happy. so should i stay becuz of the kids. and live unhappy she dosnt work has a new car and i still cant pleaze her please helpPlease help marriage advice?
Leaving your wife, which will cause you to lose a lot of people that you love, is not the answer. You will not be any happier if you have to see your kids on the weekends or only get to pick them up from school on Wednesdays. I know marriage can be tough, especially if your sexual drive is not being fulfilled. And I know that not sharing the same interests as your wife can be challenging. However, you are the man, it is your job to lead her.


If she is not responsive to sex, maybe it's that she is no longer turned on, women need to be excited, they need to feel like you are still chasing after them. Chances are if you aren't satisfied sexually, neither is she.


Secondly, as the leader of your marriage, you are in charge of loving your wife, no matter what she now believes. You are supposed to give all you have, that means you need to try to understand her beliefs and be tolerant of them, or even show an interest in them. I know my words aren't easy, but there is nothing harder than for a child to have to grow up in a split home.