Please help. marriage advice!!!?

(i asked this question earlier so sorry if your reading it for the 2nd time)





How should i deal with the fact that for the last 6 years, i've been in love...but although i am muslim, i'm in love with a girl who is hindu. I know it's forbidden in islam, and her parents would be against this too, but in 2-3 years time, when i get married, how will i marry someone knowing that i don't love them. do you think it can survive. it would be impossible for me to open up to this person, because i'll just feel like a fraud.


Obviously, i'm trying to stay strong and do the right thing by my religion...but even after 6 years, i literally think about this girl first thing in the morning and last thing before i fall asleep (cliche i know but its actually true i'm afraid).





So any advice as to how i have a happy marriage and life...because i don't think i'll ever love anyone as much as the girl i'm in love with.





I know this might sound desperate and pathetic...which it is i suppose, but this is the situation i find myself in. i've tried blocking this person out of my life, and even went a couple of years without speaking to her...but even then, no matter how hard i tried, i couldnt forget.





I especially want to get some advice from my fellow muslims as they'll understand better the position im in and understand the circumstances better.Please help. marriage advice!!!?
I think you first need to tell us if she


is in love with you or not. Your final


decision will depend on that...Please help. marriage advice!!!?
I am sorry. Either you ask her to change her religion or you will have to forget about this girl. also, she cant convert to Islam just for the heck of it. She got to study it, agree with it, and accept it. Because islam is all about intentions. She cant convert with the intention of marrying you.





I know this is hard on you. Very hard i suppose. But the love of Allah should have been far more greater then your love for this girl since the beginning. Hindus are idol worshippers. Do you realize that? Do you realize what their believes are? And do you realize how unhappy Allah would be with these people? How can you destroy your akhirah for dunia? and that too, for some girl? i know its hard. But you got to think wisely. Deal with it
If you open your heart to someone else, the love grows.





I suggest you don't jeopardize yourself with the family being torn apart and all the heartbreak. It's not an easy thing to go through.





Besides, if you love Allah more, you know what to do.





--If it's any consolation to you, a cousin of mine married a Hindu man, and he did not revert to Islam when they got married.





Her family was torn apart, and she went through a lot of pain with her family not being accepting of her.





But, here's the great part..





Alhamdulillah, 6 months ago, he reverted to Islam. They have one child together.